Avoidants prefer projects over partners bc it makes them feel superior & in control. This caters to their low selfworth, low selfesteem, & insecurity. They feel more comfortable being with someone they do not respect. This soothes their abandonment wound, bc they anticipate abandonment. The loss of a project is easier to cope with versus the loss of a partner.

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