For all the oldest daughters, or really anyone who grew up having to be the responsible “good kid”… Let’s rant about struggles, and then on how we can heal and break free!


Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
0:16 Perfectionism & SelfCriticism
3:21 Conflict Avoidance
5:32 SelfOppression & Loss of Identity
7:14 Being the "good kid" (and how it's not so good)
8:46 The negative effects of people pleasing
9:53 Facing pushback when setting boundaries
10:56 Being "mature for your age"
12:38 Mindsets to heal & break free!
15:06 How to stop people pleasing!
17:06 How this affects our relationships + ending the cycle


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