Have you ever been in a conversation with someone and before you know it, they are screaming at the top of their lungs? Or have you ever had a boss who, the minute they felt their authority was threatened, start namecalling and cursing at people?

Today I am unpacking the best way to deal with people with explosive boundaries, and more specifically people who respond EXPLOSIVELY to your boundaries or to feeling threatened.

In this video, I cover:
How you may have drawn explosive people into your life
Your boundary blueprint
Three questions to ask yourself when encountering explosive people
Fight or flight response to explosive boundaries
How to stay calm through the explosive boundary storm

Download the free guide that goes along with this episode here: https://www.terricole.com/explosiveb...

TIME STAMPS:
0:00 Introduction
1:20 Your downloaded boundary blueprint (around anger)
3:02 The 3 questions you can ask to uncover your blueprint
5:33 Flight or fight response: what it is, feels like, and the consequences
11:03 Reframing the explosive situation
13:24 How to deescalate the situation
16:10 A simple breathing exercise

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ABOUT TERRI COLE
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary BossThe Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free.

For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stayathome moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.

She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/

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