In this raw and deeply personal conversation, previously recorded on 2/6/24, Sandy and Phil Valentine openly discuss Phil's cancer diagnosis and the impact it is having on their lives. As Phil is preparing to start chemotherapy for NonHodgkin's B Cell Lymphoma, they reflect on their experiences of Phil's previous bout with cancer in 2010. Sandy expresses her struggle with seeing her partner in pain again while Phil shares his contemplation on death, revealing spiritual questions and emotional fears. The couple discusses the importance of kindness, community and maintaining a strong support system. Through it all, they highlight the importance of recovery and their faith, reiterating their determination to stay resilient against cancer.

00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:06 Reflecting on Past Experiences with Cancer
01:35 Dealing with Emotions and Anger
02:27 Facing a New Diagnosis: NonHodgkin's Lymphoma
05:07 Understanding the Medical Process and Delays
05:44 Navigating the Healthcare System
07:54 Contemplating Mortality and the Afterlife
08:44 Facing the Possibility of Death
14:31 Dealing with Anger and Emotional Changes
18:18 Understanding the Treatment Regimen
18:46 The Four Quadrants of Health
21:16 The Role of Art in Coping
24:20 Facing Chemotherapy
30:34 The Impact on Family
33:00 The Power of Kindness
34:55 Coming to Terms with the Unknown