I am Dr. Marianna Martinez, your host. On this program we are going to talk about a seesaw, more specifically a relationship seesaw. That is, the tendency of engaging in relationships where the more one does one thing, the more other does the opposite. Dr. Murray Bowen called this relationship posture over and under functioning. If this sounds like your history of relationships, then being able to step back and observe your participation in this style of relating is not only surprising but eye opening in discovering a lot about yourself behavior in relationships.