“Once in awhile I am late and my boyfriend takes it so personally. I can understand why he gets upset but he blows it way out of proportion and triggers our biggest fights. How can I convince him it’s not about him?" Paul, Fort Collins, Colorado

No relationship is free of conflict. Listen to my advice on ways to resolve the most common argument patterns and learn how to fight better.



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