No inferiority, no superiority (they can feel what you feel on the inside), keep it eyelevel.
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TIPS:
Soft and Sharp responses are only negatively experienced when imbalanced
Imbalances = feeling INFERIOR or SUPERIOR
INFERIORITY symptoms: peoplepleasing, laughterpadding, white lies
SUPERIORITY symptoms: reactiveness, judgement over observation, attachment
YOUR ENERGY: what you embody inside and out facial expressions, body language, tone, pitch, pace, words, intention, thoughts, emotions...
How to be SOFT and BALANCED:
1. Be intentional
2. Breathe
3. Be eyelevel with others
4. Speak slower
5. Lift/lighten your tone
6. Ground your energy
How to be SHARP and BALANCED:
1. Be intentional
2. Breathe
3. Be eyelevel with others
4. Be honest
5. Be definitive and open at the same time
6. Stay present and conscious
See my Instagram and TikTok for more examples on balanced Sharp vs Soft responses.
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Inferiority vs Superiority
2:39 Embodying Energy
3:45 How to be BALANCED SOFT
6:45 How to be BALANCED SHARP
11:23 Conclusion
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ABOUT:
My name is Ariel Niu, I create, speak, and coach on improving self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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