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I recently asked for questions and one I got above all others was this: How do I attract someone I am inspired by?

The journey to calling in a soulmate often begins with a list of qualities we seek in them—traits of a king or a priestess we crave. However, the key to attracting such a partner lies in turning the lens to ourselves and honestly evaluating what we bring to the dance.

Ask yourself, what would a partner with the qualities I’m looking for, find immeasurably valuable?

This takes courage and an unwavering desire to grow beyond your current capacity and patterns.

Engage friends or someone you admire in a conversation about what traits would mairresistible to a desired partner
Ask them to really be honest with their feedback and where they see growth opportunities in you.

Can you be more heart openly expresssive? More grounded? Do you need to build your kingdom? How well do you really take care of yourself? How artfully do you conduct love through your body? How devotional to love are you….really?

Do you have wounds that are unaddressed that stop you from being fully expressed in love that you face head on?

When looking for a partner to spend your life with, the journey has to start primarily inward, rather than outward.

Not on the apps. But in your core heart.

This is counterintuitive for many.

It’s about doing the work to become the person who would effortlessly magnetise the partner you desire.

As you gently and consistently move in that direction, you attract people and circumstances you could never see coming with your habitual strategies.