Time is one of your best assets to get back with your ex. Learn how to create what I call a "synchronised emotional state"

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The Power of Time and Radio Silence on an Ex

I often talk about Radio Silence / No Contact
I describe how time helps to win back an ex
Baking a pizza at 2000 degrees?

Let's see why time will be our best weapon.


1/ The power of time on the emotional state

What did you say during the separation?

Were you upset?
Was your ex angry?
What were the words you said?

Calm is the foundation of a healthy relationship:

When you start a relationship, it's calm
American movies
Example 1: You leave each other over a single argument.
Example 2: It's a series of crescendo arguments

Time fixes everything.

2/ Time allows your ex to be sure

Your ex didn't wake up and say to himself "well, we're going to leave each other":

It took weeks, months, years
A slow negative construction

Before the breakup, your ex said to himself "maybe it will work out":

"I just need a break".
Many questions
Many internal doubts
A lot of ruminations
It's not just an argument
I'll see if my feelings change
"If it's persistent, I'll leave"
Then they leave

It took a long time to leave, it will take a long time to come back:

Time to miss
Don't hurt yourself by coming back too soon
It's a mature act
Your ex still has affection for you
Not wanting to hurt you
Especially if you had a hard time with the breakup

You don't leave immediately in a relationship.
You don't come back immediately in a relationship.
It's the same engine.

3/ Every second of SR is a little bit of missing

Give them a taste of the experience of lack
Give them time to erase the mistakes

4/ After the breakup, they thought they were better than you

Better than you
Having a better relationship with another person
And time will show that the grass is not greener elsewhere
It is often on yourself that you have to work, the answer is not elsewhere
The good memories will come back

5/ They think of you

At night the good memories come back
They thought of calling you
Every day they miss you a little more
FOMO

Experience is a candle that only lights the one who carries it.
They have to experience life

6/ Curiosity

Rise each day
In the daily life

7/ The realization

We get back together for good
I know I must not leave this person
"If I don't do something, I lose her forever"

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It takes discipline
You have to believe in yourself
Let time pass even when it is difficult