Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel.‪@psychacks‬

In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approaches

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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
00:00 INTRO
00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men
03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women?
05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems
10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating
13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection
15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To
20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic
23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require?
27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return
30:23 "Love People Like Cats"
32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships
35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter
37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions
39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles
44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “SelfFocused Attention”
45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol
47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life
51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness
53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough
54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s?
57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 2023
1:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity
1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair”
1:07:40 Covid and Conformity
1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of SelfDoubt
1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd?
1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework?
1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating
1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer”
1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed
1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating?
1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status?
1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship
1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling”
1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy
1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much?
1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms
1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim
1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility?
1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem
1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality
1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine”
1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount
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