About a year ago, my special topic lecture of the month was all on the origins of selfsabotage and it was a massive it. It offered many aha moments for a lot of people!! So my team and I have edited that livestream lecture down to just under one hour. We've removed the stops, starts, and scrolls all the things that tend to happen on a livestream. Of course, if you like that stuff, you can find the raw and unedited version here:    • The ORIGINS of SelfSabotage & What I...  

For more on selfsabotage, I did another vlog earlier this year titled, The origin story of procrastination, selfsabotage, & fleeing from health, and you can watch that one here:    • The origin story of procrastination, ...  

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Here are some Questions/Topics I discuss in this chat:

1:04 Introduction to selfsabotage
1:43 Ways of selfsabotage?
3:29 Ventral vagal aspect (connecting)
5:32 Staying in abusive/toxic relationships and environments
7:50 Wearing an invisible mask that keeps us from who we really are
10:46 Human system healing itself
11:32 Believing that we deserve to heal
12:04 Nature healing Itself
17:01 How survival stress begins
21:08 Wired for disappointment
24:14 Wired for selfshaming
24:50 Healthy Shaming
26:01 Toxic Shaming
28:39 Wired for shutdown
32:53 Needing a reward/praise
36:00 Effects of school
39:10 Perfectionism
39:28 Preverbal & life force energy
43:25 Healthy aggression is essential
48:09 What’s the next step?
54:18 Compassion for others and ourselves going through dysregulation



Resources I mention in this Vlog:

► Drop In Class
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► Edgar Cayce
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edgar_C...

► George Ivanovich Gurdjieff
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_...

► Up & Down Movement Workshop
https://www.updownworkshop.com/

► The Polyvagal Theory. Explained
   • The Polyvagal Theory. Explained.  

► [Trauma Tips #1] What's the nervous system got to do with it?
   • [Trauma Tips #1] What's the nervous s...  

► Moshe Feldenkrais
https://feldenkrais.com/

► Disgust. The gateway emotion for healing toxic shame
   • Disgust. The gateway emotion for heal...  

► Why healthy shame is good for us and toxic shame isn't.
   • Why healthy shame is good for us and ...  

► Origins of The ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Study
  / originsoftheacestudy  

► New Thinking About Children Paperback by Po Bronson (Author), Ashley Merryman
https://www.amazon.ca/NurtureShockNe...

► What is Healthy Aggression
   • What is healthy aggression?  

► How suppressing our emotions and physiology can lead to depression
https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/2020/11/01/how...'>https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/2020/11/01/how...

► Free Resource Centre
https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/freeresources2/'>https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/freeresources2/

► 21Day Nervous System Tune Up
https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/tuneup/'>https://irenelyon.com'>https://irenelyon.com/tuneup/

► Functional Freeze Explained
   • Functional Freeze Explained  

► SmartBody SmartMind
https://www.smartbodysmartmind.com/

► Yellowstone and the trophic cascade that took place
https://www.nationalgeographic.org/me...

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