Here is the simple way to steal any horse from Saint Denis's stables after Ch 3. They have the most expensive horses. No honor loss or any other consequences. You basically just bond the horse to level 1 and then bail out. It's now yours.
Thank you for others who discovered this and posted wonderful written guides on reddit.
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