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To be honest with you, I don't want to do that at all. But uh, if it makes you happy, I'm all about pleasing yourself. I'm down to do it. Please. Like just give me a, give me a little more of that, that validation and that approval. I just get off to it. So good. Ow that kind of hurts. Like I said, please, please like me. Just me. Okay. Please. People pleasing isn't going to get you very far. It's a never ending rabbit hole that you just continue to go down. And in this video I'm going to show you how to finally stop people pleasing, how to take your power back and how in a way to really show up in the world as who you're meant to be.

Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now I'm going to share with you how to not be a people pleaser. No Mo you have, you have had it up to here and you are ready to say, yo, I got to take my power back. I gotta have boundaries. I don't need to make you happy for me to be happy. And here's the, here's the dirty secret about being a people pleaser. By the way too, you want to hear a secret here is people pleasing is a shadow mechanism.

It is a shadow part of ourselves that is trying to gain the approval of other people because we believe deep down that we don't have value for just being us. And the key to this is realizing that that's a barrier. Keeping other people from knowing the real you, even if the real you is a little bit blunt, even if the real you has a quirky sense of humor is says things on their mind.

So this is a way that uh, a way that you are blocking other people from getting to know the real you. Let me tell you something. The real you is probably freaking cool. It's probably way cooler than the people pleaser version of you. You just don't know it yet because you haven't, you haven't been able to express that part of you. So first off, let me say, I am a recovering people pleaser.

There. I said it. Okay, I got this off my chest. I used to be a people pleaser until I realized that it wasn't so fun. I mean, I used to work a sales commission job, so pretty much my job was to please other people by, by providing them shoes that they could then buy. Worked at Nordstrom's for years and then a place called Barneys New York for years, and it was my job to do to do that, but I realized that in a way I actually got some type of sense of value from it, like a sense of worthiness from it.

I was like, I'm adding value. I'm pleasing, therefore I'm worthy. And that's what I realized as I started to do more shadow work. Now, first off, let me share this with you as well. People pleasing is normally a side effect of guests that you barely saw right here, parent pleasing. If growing up you had very critical parents, they were telling you what to do, they reprimanded you a lot, or you had to gain their love in some way.

What you may find is that then that pattern after they're not, they're not, you know, you're not in the same house as them anymore. You're then in relationships and then you'll find it that you're trying to make them happy and you're trying to please them and maybe that's taken away your own happiness as well because you may be doing things you don't really want to do.

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