No one wants to believe they have a toxic family and are being bullied by them.
But when family members team up against another family member to accomplish a united goal, psychotherapists call that coalitions and alliances.
Coalitions and alliances are "family agreements" that can feel like a "family agreement" to bully and intimidate you.
Family bullying is toxic, dark, evil, and sinnester within dysfunctional families.
Sadly, in some situations it isn't easy to put a stop to family coalitions and alliance but you can certainly learn to identify this "perverse triangle" and family coalition.
In this video, I discuss the "family trap" you may feel you have been sucked into within your family.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
2:19 what a family coalition looks like
2:58 power disparity or power differential
3:45 siblings may enter the coalition or alliance against you
4:19 Jay Haley and family systems function in particular ways
Cross generational parentchild coalition
6:59 Jay Haley says 3 conditions must be met for a cross generational parentchild coalition
7:50 the "peverse triangle"
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