Finding love is a journey. We might take some wrong turns along the way.

Matthew Hussey helps people find love, and sometimes, redefine their relationship with love. Matthew is a dating coach who balances practical advice about the art of attraction with the importance of centering our own sense of self in our search for love. Starting as a teenager and working primarily with women, he’s helped thousands of people find romance and create relationships built on values which feel right for them.

I sat down with Matthew to ask him everything he’s learned about love after decades as a dating coach. He shares with me the most common mistakes people make when looking for a partner, what we ought to be looking for, and why our own happiness is ultimately our own responsibility, not anyone else’s.

This…is A Bit of Optimism.

To learn more about Matthew and his work, check out:
his new book: https://matthewhussey.com/lovelifeb...
his YouTube channel: ‪@thematthewhussey‬
his website: http://matthewhussey.com/

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 An intro to Matthew
2:41 “How do I kill the desire to find love?”
7:45 How Matthew got started as a dating coach
9:52 Matthew’s love life
12:30 Talking to strangers is a skillset
14:23 What we get wrong when we search for love
22:13 Some wisdom from Bruce Springsteen
25:42 The 4 levels of importance in a relationship
30:05 Invest in who invests in you
37:25 FOMO vs .gratitude
41:23 Do we need confidence to find love?
45:04 Romance vs. selflove
53:11 A final story from Simon

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Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.

Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.

Simon is the author of multiple bestselling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.

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Start With Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/startwi...
Find Your Why: https://simonsinek.com/books/findyou...
Leaders Eat Last: https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders...
Together is Better: https://simonsinek.com/books/together...

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