Are you endlessly giving and doing for all the people all the time?
Do people come to you when they need something because they know you’ll get it done, no matter what?
If you are nodding your head, you might just be a highfunctioning codependent, and this episode is for you.
I am covering what highfunctioning codependency is, the considerable cost of being a highfunctioning codependent (on you, your relationships, and others), and sharing my own experiences with this, both personally and professionally.
Grab the guide for this episode here: https://www.terricole.com/thehighpr...
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Time Stamps
0:00 Preview
0:40 Introduction
2:49 What is highfunctioning codependency?
5:37 What is the difference with "highfunctioning"?
7:18 You remember all the details
9:00 The cost of highfunctioning codependency on us
12:02 Getting mad when people didn't take my advice
12:48 The cost of highfunctioning codependency to others
14:37 Why this matters
15:40 How my life changed when I recovered
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About Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary BossThe Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free.
For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stayathome moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/
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