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Aaron Doughty

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The main problem I have with the law of attraction is that it is surface level. In 2023 and beyond, as we're moving more and more into an energy where I believe it's about transforming from the inside out.

And what a lot of people are intending to do with the law of attraction is they want to attract things from the outside in. It's going about it the backwards way, and it's also the focus is on the external.

And when you're focused on the external, we're focused on things that don't already exist within us. We're focused on waiting for external things to shift before we give ourselves permission to feel differently on the inside.

This is why instead of in 2023 focusing on the external, what I encourage you to do is to focus more on the internal, transforming your life from the inside out. For example, this means if you wanna attract more money, stop focusing on the money.

The money is a side effect of a feeling that you feel within yourself combined with the action you are taking of being. Being is a present moment thing. It's in the moment. Being isn't trying to escape somewhere to get somewhere else.

So instead of focusing on money for 2023, focus on what that would make you feel, which is internally focused, which you can then transform from the inside out. What you would feel maybe is security, maybe that's what money means to you.

Money to me means security. It means freedom, the ability to travel, to do what I want, when I want, the ability to have resources. This is what money means to me.

And instead of focusing on the outside, the key is me feeling the energy and setting the intention to feel that on the inside now.

Because otherwise what happens is you wait to feel that on the inside once you have the external thing, but then you go about it in a lack way. It's like, I don't feel the abundant, I don't feel secure. And then it's like, it's even harder.

There's more resistance to attracting that into your life. But also by the time you actually get there, by the time you get that external thing, there's a feeling of it's not enough because there's a belief there that I can only feel a specific way once the thing on the outside is here.

But then you don't even let yourself feel it when it comes in because there's almost this energy of always wanting more, always wanting to attract the next level.

And there's a false belief that says, "I can feel this way once this comes," but it never really comes because you just keep upping the ante. That's what happened when I was, like, first
starting on YouTube.

It was, like, my intention is to have 100,000 YouTube followers. And then when I hit that, I was like, "Okay, oh my gosh." I feel so great for 20 minutes.

I remember going to the gym, it was Life Time Athletic in Vegas, and I go on this bike thing and I'm, like, going on the bike and I'm looking around and I'm, like, it feels pretty much the exact same.

You know what'd be better than 100,000? 200,000. Oh my gosh, 200,000? That's like double, things are going quicker now? Like, what would that feel like? And then eventually I went out to, like, Sprouts and, like, I had my first encounter with somebody that recognized me for my videos and I was like, "Oh my God, I'm worthy. I'm enough."

And then I realized as time went on, just how fickle this whole thing was, how ridiculous it all was. How it was just this belief in the mind of wanting validation and approval. And then I let go of it. And the more I let go of it, the more everything grew.

The more you let go, the more this stuff comes in. Because I also started giving my self my own sense of validation. I realized I am not only validated when I have a million subscribers, or even when I'm making videos for people that add value to them.

'Cause that was a belief that I had for a while. I have value for just being me, gets more to the core. But then even think about this when it comes to some of you in 2023 may wanna attract a relationship. So what are you gonna focus on?

"I wanna attract a relationship. I wanna attract somebody that come into my life and oh my gosh, that'll feel so good." But instead of that, what do you really want from the relationship? You wanna feel connected.

Maybe. You wanna feel love, you intend to feel love. You intend to feel connected. You intend to feel compassion within yourself and at one with everyone around you.

And once again, attracting a relationship is a side effect of the selflove you feel for yourself. Once again, it's not the external thing. And then even this, if you get the relationship but you don't work on yourself and you don't transform from the inside out, guess what?

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