Have you seen those videos or articles that tell you what you SHOULD have achieved before 30 years old? The idea of 'should' is a mental trap that we get ourselves into. We choose how we live our lives, and even if we have pressure from others, we are the ones buying into it. where should you be at 30? Wherever you want to be!

0:00 The idea of 'should' is total B.S.
0:30 Why do we feel should pressure in our 30s?
1:20 Most of the pressure is coming from the inside
1:45 Develop an internal locus of control
4:03 Is Your Life Progressing?
4:33 Are you taking responsibility?
5:09 Do You have a plan or goal?
6:25 There is no scorecard in life

Hopefully this video gives you a better perspective on where you should be at 30, and what you should have accomplished by 30. Remember that you are on your own path at your own pace. Be proud of your own progress and the person you are becoming.

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