Join Mike Stroh, and Merle Yost, LMFT, a licensed psychotherapist, on a powerful journey of healing from childhood trauma and the impact of sexual abuse on men. In this transformative podcast, Merle shares personal insights and challenges societal norms surrounding male sexual abuse. From discovering the power of EMDR therapy and other therapies to understanding the importance of boundaries in relationships, Merle offers valuable perspectives on healing and personal growth. Dive deep into the conversation as Merle addresses the victim mentality in society and the path to reclaiming personal power. Don't miss this inspirational discussion on overcoming trauma and embracing boundaries for a life of wholeness.

00:00 Introduction and Background
01:09 Growing Up in a Cultlike Family
03:12 Discovering EMDR Therapy
04:56 Integration into Society and Helping Others
05:57 Male Sexual Abuse and Secrecy
07:11 Awakening to the Impact of Abuse
09:31 The Effects of Abuse on Men
11:16 Sibling Dynamics and Healing
12:37 Starting the Healing Journey
14:40 Processing Pain and Taking Back Power
16:05 Separating from Family for SelfDiscovery
19:02 Gestalt Therapy and Directness
21:07 Rejecting the Notions of Forgiveness and SelfLove
23:31 The Importance of SelfAcceptance
26:36 The Link Between Shame and Sexual Compulsivity
27:36 Pathologizing Men and the Need for Compassion
28:12 Introduction and Transition to Boundaries
29:10 Understanding Boundaries
29:54 Physical and Energetic Boundaries
30:51 The Importance of Energetic Boundaries
32:37 The Impact of Boundaries on Relationships
35:30 The Role of Boundaries in Sexuality
36:42 How to Strengthen Boundaries
40:52 Boundaries in Relationships
45:26 Spirituality and Boundaries
49:01 The Victim Mentality in Society
51:53 Conclusion and Invitation

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