EBTV with host Evita Ochel and returning guest Tom Campbell in a dialogue about the nature of love, what it really means, and how to apply it.

Tom's Trilogy Book — My Big TOE (http://amzn.to/2i6zjXN)

Topics covered in the video include:

1. An explanation of love from an MBT / LCS perspective. (2:25)
difference between love vs. need
understanding unconditional love
how to optimize or destroy the simulation system
the destructive potential of grouping together
how fear relates to love
fearbased tendencies (13:39)
lovebased tendencies (15:05)
qualities of a lovebased life (18:35)
qualities of a fearbased life (18:57)
being love vs. acting out love

2. The energy signature and frequency of love in a simulation. (25:29)
what is Ego and its role in love and fear
how beliefs sabotage new insight
fear creates Ego and beliefs
how to identify Ego
the 5step process for becoming love
the antidote to fear
the role of observation
the struggles we face as humans: “a struggle of fear and ignorance, against love and understanding.”

3. Is love a building block or byproduct of the simulation? (44:00)
an explanation of information and entropy
how to maintain low entropy
the fundamental nature of love
how the system allows us to grow into love (51:56)
the importance of choices in the process of growing up
what is the most important thing to do to save the world (56:08)

4. Does living based on “other” instead of “self” allow people nearest to us to treat us “poorly” and should we still love them for doing so? (58:23)
seek low entropy choices for the system as a whole
abusive relationships = high entropy situations
being a person of love = more power
how being a pacifist ties in
the challenge of practicing discernment (1:13:13)
morality and the importance of intent in making the right choice
the importance of taking action even if we are not sure if it is the right choice
applications to romantic partnerships; will males get walked all over if they are loving (1:21:44)

5. How to deal with opposing views, especially regarding current politics. (1:24:14)
strategies for handling difficult or negative topics
letting go of Ego, fear and beliefs
we need to deal with what is; how we deal with it is what matters