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When you energetically let somebody go, it completely changes the energy around the situation. And so many times I've seen it where when people actually let somebody go, it allows them to bring their energy back, and then it changes the whole entire dynamic.

So in this video, I'm gonna show you why that is, what actually happens energetically, and what you can do about this to shift the energy, to allow yourself to be more centered, and safe inside of your own frame, and ultimately also more magnetic.

Now, when thinking about this, and you look at it, have you ever seen this happen in your own life with friends, with family, with anybody you've seen go through this, where let's say somebody goes through a breakup, and they're taking it really hard, and it's really hard for them, and they just can't get someone out of their mind, they're thinking about this person getting back to them, they're thinking of ways of like reengaging with somebody else, but no matter what they do, it seems like it's actually making the situation worse.

And then something might happen where they'll go out with friends, they'll go do something, maybe go on a vacation, or they'll start to focus on their own selfgrowth or something. And they stop investing their energy into that specific person, and then all of a sudden the energy shifts, and that person reaches out, there's a different type of energy there, and it's almost like that person has more vibrancy and more energy.

Well, what is happening energetically between these two different people is what you wanna understand when it comes to letting someone go. The reason the energy changes so much when you let someone go is you stop projecting energy at them.

So energetically, when you think of this, think of almost like two stick figures, and think of like a ball around these two stick figures.

And this ball of energy is simply the energy field. We all have an energetic field that goes far beyond our body, and what happens is when we are thinking of somebody else, we are literally sending them energy, and projecting energy at them.

Now there's an interesting thing that also happens with this, which I'll get into, where normally the person, not normally, but sometimes what might happen is the person that is,
the person wants space.

They're literally wanting space and they're wanting to separate from the energy, they're wanting to get back to themselves. And what happens is the more somebody's sending energy at them, they're feeling that.

And anytime we think, like we live in a collective consciousness where all of us are connected. So when we think of somebody else, we project energy at them. And I know this too, I did a live event recently, here in Austin, and it is so crazy.

One of the the guests came up, one of the participants, and she came on stage to be coached. She's like, "Wow." She's like, "When I'm up here, I feel so high." She felt high when she was on stage.

And there is something that's very often known in the speaker community of people that do live events, there's a high that happens. And so it's very important for people to be integrity, because they can abuse that high, that energy, that power in a way.

And what it is though is when many people are focused on someone, they're projecting energy at this person. Now what happens is when we're thinking of someone continuously, and we're in a relationship with somebody else, our energy fields are literally intertwingled like inter dwindled or tangled, entangled.

And what happens is when we want space, we are moving that energy back to be separate. Now what happens is if somebody, if two people decide, or maybe one person decides that they're gonna end the relationship, and maybe somebody else is distraught about it, the more this person thinks of that person, and wants things to be different, the more that that is actually pulling the person to go away, it's literally repelling them.

And think about the person that is thinking about this person, this other person, they're feeling resistance. They're feeling, this person's maybe not responding to me, there's something wrong, this person's not coming around, there's something wrong.

I want this, which means I lack this, which means this person is doing what I want, so it's wrong, and then that resistance is being projected at the other person, because whatever we feel, other people feel, we're projecting it out to them.

So in the energy of projecting that energy towards somebody else, they're literally feeling that energy and it is having them go away and walk away. Now, energetically, when you let go, it allows the energy to then clear, which then has a magnetizing effect.