When narcissists Hoover

This is when and why you begin your exit plan and be consistent.

They will never tell you about their snooping and stalking unless you catch them, and when you do…there will be a sob story and finally and explanation.

This is when they are extremely vulnerable and can’t hide it. In this moment, you will notice eye contact, wanting to hold you, hug you, kiss you and do all of the things that you’ve always wanted.

They are also or can be very dangerous during this time—so be careful. A vindictive phase is imminent!

Now…you must stand your ground, keep your word, promises to self, and others, and realize that you have achieved…in that moment what you were praying for…”Lord help me, please give me the strength to deny this man/woman!”

Most people hope and wish for their partner to get help, to get better—but hardly ever do you all keep promises to yourself, once confronted by a grieving narcissist!

This is your time to put sympathy away, and just understand how they feel because they never understood how you felt and never will! @narcabuse_tv